Our Evolution: J2SYL.org is becoming a J2App...fundraiser starts July 1st 2016.



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Original 2012 Fundraising Video! We raised $17,000 for the J2SYL.org PILOT Program.


The 2017 J2App WILL SERVE a

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In 2012 & 2014, 212+ Donors Made Journal To Save Your Life REAL.


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TRANSFORM J2SYL.org into the J2App.

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